Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Natural Birth Ingredients

In order to have good natural birth experience there are many factors that must come together in harmony to make it possible in today's hospital environment. The best place to start is by educating yourself, most women today know very little about the differences between a truly natural labor and birth, and the standard medical labor that doctors often portray as natural. Having your baby your way is mainly a matter of putting together the right ingredients and trusting the recipe to turn out as it should, 95% of the time it will.

Below are the ingredients you will need to make a good natural childbirth, collecting these ingredients and putting them into practice is the best way to get the birth of your choice. Once you have put these ingredients together just sit back and relax, there is no use worrying about things that are out of your control.

Ingredient 1: Belief and Confidence:



Belief... in your ability to give birth to your baby in your own unique way, trusting in your body's ability to give birth, tuned in to your intuitive sense, an inner wisdom that guides you.

“Many women’s early conditioning makes them believe they are unable to give birth normally, when women realize that their bodies know how to give birth and that their babies know how to be born, they gain confidence. Only then is gentle birth a possibility” Gentle Birth Choices, by Barbara Harper.

Confidence... that birth is a normal and natural process and that your body was designed to safely deliver your baby into your waiting arms. Confidence that birth is not inherently dangerous, anymore than being pregnant, sleeping, or eating is.

“Women’s bodies have a near-perfect knowledge of childbirth; it is when their brains get involved that things can go wrong. Women must have confidence in the intrinsic intelligence of their own body in order to find their own unique ways of dealing with labor.” Gentle Birth Choices, by Barbara Harper.

Ingredient 2: Labor Support




Besides your own belief and confidence in your self you need only a guide, a calm and experienced woman, who can help the struggling you “along the rocky paths of Laborland.” Your labor support must be calm, reassuring and most of all you need to be surrounded by people who trust in your ability to give birth. When you are surrounded by confident and calm labor support you will be able to trust yourself, your body, your partner, your baby, and this process of giving birth.

Ingredient 3: No Time Constraints

“A gentle birth is not rushed. The baby emerges at its own pace and in its own time, received into the hands of those who love and recognize it for the divine gift that it is. A gentle birth respects the mother’s pivotal role, acknowledging that she knows how to birth her child in her own time and in her own way, trusting her instincts and intuition. In the words of one such mother, “I instinctively trusted my body and its ability to birth my baby. I just knew I could do it. I felt the energy of the birth moving through me, and I just let it happen. I was so incredible.” Gentle Birth Choices, by Barbara Harper

Ingredient 4: Reassuring Environment



Most of the circumstances of a natural labor and birth are up to fate. Creating the right birth environment is up to you. Give birth surrounded by peace of mind and comfort. Here are a few ways to create a peaceful and reassuring birth environment–

Quiet…in a quiet distraction-free environment a woman is able to stay centered within herself, and more likely to shift into a more instinctive level of concentration or consciousness that will enable her to labor spontaneously. Ideally a baby is best welcomed into a quiet place, a safe place, an environment free from bright lights and jarring loud noises.

Freedom to Move…the worst possible position for laboring and giving birth is the lying-down position. Dr. Roberto Caldeyro-Barcia, has stated: “Except for being hanged by the feet, the suspine position is the worst conceivable position for labor and delivery.” Movement during labor gives a woman control of her body, and removes her from being a patient upon whom birth is performed and empowers her to become a women giving birth. 

Relaxation...A women’s ability to remain relaxed and maintain her sense of humor is the best predictor of a positive birth experience, even if there are difficulties. It’s important to keep an open mind as to how the birth will actually proceed. Flexibility is essential, because in some cases medical intervention may be necessary.

Concentration...A women in labor shifts into a deeper level of concentration; she removes herself from concepts of time. In the words of one such mother...

“During each contraction I concentrated on relaxing every mussel in my body, I breathed deeply. I went deep down and listened to my body, I did whatever felt comfortable. I labored for many more hours than my memory can account for. I was in such a deep concentration most of the time that I wasn’t aware of what was going on around me. I can’t remember much about what was going on around me during those times of concentration, but I know that the room was dark and quiet, and very peaceful. I felt the comforting presence of my husband and mother. I was lost in the magic of birth. I didn’t fight the contractions instead I welcome them as the source and power that would bring my baby into my waiting arms.” ~ Natural Birth Mom

Gentle Babies

How Gentle Birth’s make “Gentle Babies” 

Dr. John Grover commented, “I noticed immediately that babies born in this peaceful, twilight atmosphere seemed calmer and more alert than those I had delivered in the past. After awhile the nursery nurses began to comment, ‘Ah, you’ve brought us another gentle birth baby!’ Without having to point out the fact. When I asked them how they could tell, the reply was ‘Oh, most babies are either asleep or crying most of the time; yours look about more, they seem to follow us with their eyes.’”

· The First Breath…The first breath can be gradual or abruptly painful, depending on when the umbilical cord is cut. By keeping the newborn attached to the umbilical cord while it is still pulsating, the transition to breathing with the lungs is gradual and gentle. The baby moves from being breathed for to breathing alone.


· Bonding…The newly emerged baby is immediately placed on the mother’s waiting arms, receiving immediate skin-to-skin contact with mom. Newborns of non-medicated, awake mothers are significantly more responsive at delivery. If free from medication the newborn’s first response after birth is to move into a quiet but alert state of consciousness.

· Breastfeeding…Breastfeeding contributes to a baby’s emotional life as well as its health and well being, but it can also increase the mother’s sense of well-being and give her an immediate sense of her ability to mother. Skin-to-skin contact and breastfeeding for at least the first hour after birth has many benefits including increased milk supply, helping to stop bleeding, and most importantly welcomes the newborn child into a peaceful and loving environment, and lays the groundwork for becoming a deeply bonded family.


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